Reader ends toxic friendship through gradual ghosting, psychotherapist validates decision

A reader ended a friendship by gradually ghosting a problematic friend who blamed childhood trauma and mental health issues for abusive behavior. Psychotherapist Noel Bell validated the decision, saying compassion had failed and the friendship became an unsustainable caretaking role. The reader prioritized their wellbeing correctly; choosing personal peace over someone's emotional demands is self-care, not selfishness.

Summary by OZbrief Editorial · The Guardian Australia · Source